Stay connected to the dream your pursuing. You’re talking yourself out of the fun and adrenaline rush of taking a risk.Īnd talking yourself into a plain boring life that only represents a fraction of what you could truly be living. …And think about the life you’re talking yourself OUT of. Giving yourself the excuse and justification is not helping you.Īnd I know it’s one thing to say it and another thing to live it.īut next time you find yourself “talking yourself out of making a move”… While excuses like this provide a short-term relief from the POTENTIAL pain of rejection, it doesn’t lead to a fulfilling life.Īnd that’s what you’ve got to realize when you start talking yourself out of approaching a woman, or making your move in any form (even if it’s with a long term partner). It gives you a warm fuzzy feeling of comfort, because you can now relax and justify to yourself why you don’t have to take the risk and approach her.
The rejection-PROOF seduction technique (use this)Įspecially when you put your heart and soul on the line and really commit to making a move.īecause the easy thing is to sit around and do nothing.Ĭlaim they’re not attractive, not your “type”, are too “slutty” or that the time isn’t right.īecause it gives you a reason not to make your move and not to approach.
